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The Nourishment Check-In: How to Start Trusting Your Body's Cues Again

December 13, 20253 min read

When nourishment feels unclear

If you’ve ever reached for food and realized you’re unsure what you actually need, you’re not alone — and you’re not failing at nourishment.

Disconnection from body cues often develops quietly, over time. We eat while distracted, rush through meals, override hunger to meet deadlines, or ignore fullness because we were taught not to “waste food.” Eventually, the body learns that its signals are secondary.

The Nutrition Rhythm was created to gently reverse that pattern — not through rules or restriction, but through re-attunement.

At the center of this rhythm is a simple practice called The Nourishment Check-In: a brief pause that helps rebuild awareness, trust, and communication between you and your body.

"This isn't about eating perfectly. It's about an ongoing conversation with your body."


What is the Nourishment Check-In?

The Nourishment Check-In is a short pause before eating — not to monitor or control, but to notice and respond.

From a physiological perspective, this pause supports interoception — the body’s ability to sense internal signals like hunger, fullness, tension, and fatigue. When interoceptive awareness is disrupted by chronic stress, rushed eating, or long-term dieting, cues can become muted or confusing.

The Nourishment Check-In gently reopens that internal conversation.

It takes less than a minute.

It can be practiced anywhere.

And it works best when done without judgment.


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Step 1: Notice your body without labeling

Before your next meal or snack, pause and ask:

What do I feel in my body right now?

You’re not searching for hunger alone. You’re noticing sensation.

This might include:

  • Emptiness or hollowness

  • Tightness in the chest or stomach

  • Fatigue or heaviness

  • Calm or steadiness

  • Restlessness or overwhelm

There is no correct answer here. Even “I’m not sure” is useful information.

"Noticing is the first act of nourishment."


Step 2: Ask what would feel supportive

Next, ask:

What would feel supportive right now?

Support doesn’t mean optimal or ideal — it means appropriate for this moment.

Supportive nourishment might be:

  • Warm instead of cold

  • Simple instead of complex

  • Grounding instead of light

  • Easy instead of effortful

The body’s needs shift daily based on sleep, stress, movement, hormones, and emotional load. Responding to those shifts is not inconsistency — it’s responsiveness.


Step 3: Choose kindness over control

The final question is the most regulating:

What would feel like kindness, not control?

Kindness allows nourishment to meet the nervous system where it is, rather than asking the body to perform.

Some days that means a balanced meal.

Other days it means something small and steady.

Both are valid.

When eating is rooted in kindness, the body feels safer — and safety is what allows cues to return.


A gentle truth about hunger and cravings

Hunger and cravings are often multi-layered signals.

They can reflect:

  • Nutrient needs

  • Dehydration

  • Sleep debt

  • Emotional load

  • Nervous system fatigue

Rather than trying to decode every signal perfectly, the goal is to respond with care.

Curiosity keeps the conversation open.

Judgment shuts it down.


Relearning nourishment as a living rhythm

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The body doesn’t communicate in numbers or plans. It speaks through sensation, timing, and subtle shifts in need.

The Nourishment Check-In offers a way back into that conversation — not by demanding answers, but by creating space for them to emerge. Some days clarity comes easily. Other days it doesn’t. Both are part of the rhythm.

With repetition, the pause becomes familiar.

The questions soften.

The body begins to respond again.

Nourishment, approached this way, isn’t something to get right.

It’s something to stay in dialogue with — season by season, day by day, meal by meal.

And when nourishment becomes relational rather than performative, it naturally begins to feel like care.

Stephanie Phillips

Stephanie Phillips is a holistic wellness coach, nutrition educator, and founder of Laguna Lily, a lifestyle brand that helps women align with the natural rhythms of their bodies through mindful living, seasonal wellness, and self-care rituals. She believes in whole-body healing through simplicity, nourishment, and connection.

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